Hard Love. Not Hard to Love.

Doing right but believed to be wrong=Your Life in the moment.

You feel like you can't trust your own instincts, what to do or even which way to go. I am so sorry that you have to go through this.

I do know that people who speak badly about you, don't love you. They may have pretended to love  you, only to get you to be who they wanted you to be, for them. For their own needs. For their own games.

You have qualities that they admire and do not have themselves. Jealousy can be a big motivator behind people's actions.

You need to realize that, You, are the normal one.

But that means nothing while you are going through this, alone.

Do not believe or allow the fakeness to make you think that you are the one that's wrong.

You just are not manipulative or jealous of what others have or do.

The truth is, You are the good in today's world.  You are allowing choices to be made about how a person wants to be, not you.

Eventually, You will realize that you were fighting to keep the wrong people in your life. That you loved them but, they, did not, in fact, love you.

You will be able to see the red flag's in situations. Make better choices about who you fight for and keep in your life.  You will be able to trust again.


A Genuine kindness and acceptance of other's is Your role in this life. Not everyone is entitled to or able to handle such an important role. Not everyone has the courage to fight for what they want or who they are passionate for.


Please, do not give up, even for a little bit of time. Life can be harder for some than others.

Hold on tight a little longer
What don't kill ya, makes ya stronger
Get back up, 'cause it's a hard love
You can't change without a fallout
It's gon' hurt, but don't you slow down
Get back up, 'cause it's a hard love
'Cause it's a hard love

Until next time,
~It is what it is~


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